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Navigating a Gray Divorce - Four Divorce Tips for Seniors

Thursday, August 31, 2017

Getting divorced in your senior years? Also called gray divorces, they are not that uncommon. Divorces between couples 50 years or older have doubled since 1990, according to a study by Bowling Green State University. Although many of the usual issues such as child support and custody are out of the picture, other issues come into play. Here are some things you need to know.

Retirement Issues

The money that you set aside for retirement may be split in half, depending on which state you live in. The division will usually be covered by a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order). Laws about this can be complex, so contact an attorney to help you figure out everything related to your retirement funds before they are divided.

Social Security Issues

Social security isn’t divided, but you may be entitled to derivative benefits on your former spouse’s social security records. This only applies if you are 62 years or older and have been married for more than 10 years. If your former spouse dies, you may be entitled to survivor benefits. Contact an attorney for more information.

Estate and Will Issues

Who will keep the house? Whoever keeps the house will probably have to give up something else. They might receive lower alimony payments. Keep in mind that if you keep the house, will have to pay for expenses such as property taxes. Another thing you might want to consider is rewriting your will.

Contact an Attorney

Don’t attempt a complicated divorce by yourself. Get a lawyer to help you navigate issues such as retirement, social security, alimony, and more. Contact us today for help! 

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Filing for a Divorce While Pregnant: What You Need to Know

Thursday, August 24, 2017

If you and your spouse just can’t stand each other anymore, filing for an immediate divorce may seem like the best thing to do. If, however, you are pregnant, things get a little more complicated. Here are some tips to help you out.

Learn About State Laws

Every state has different laws regarding getting divorced while pregnant. In many states, you won’t be able to finalize the divorce until the baby is born. In other states, you will be able to file but your spouse will be listed as the baby’s father. In yet other states, your ex won’t be listed as the father. Get a lawyer to help you out.

Who Will Pay for Health Care?

If your divorce is finalized before the baby’s birth, who will pay for your health care while you are pregnant? Usually, you ex-spouse does not provide health care for you, but the court may order them to help you out with health care costs if you are pregnant. After the baby is born, your ex may be required to give you monetary support under child support laws.

Child Bonding and Visitation

If you are a father, it’s important that you establish your visitation rights before the birth. The most important time to bond with your child is soon after their birth, but the mother will usually be awarded full custody rights as long as the baby is breastfeeding, so make sure you get some time together to bond. After the baby is weaned, you may be able to get overnight visits.

In any case, it's important that you don't try to file by yourself. Contact us today for legal help!

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3 Tips for Navigating Taxes When Filing for a Divorce

Thursday, August 17, 2017

Filing for a divorce is always a hassle. Dealing with taxes while in middle of the divorce process just makes things more confusing. Here are a few tips to help you out.

Know Your Filing Status

Your filing status depends on your marital status on December 31st of the year you’re filing for. If you were already divorced then, you should file as a single. If you were married, you’ll file as married. If filing as married, you can file either jointly or separately.

Communication Is Key

You may not want to ever talk to your spouse again, but it’s important that you communicate about filing taxes. You don’t want one of you filing jointly and the other filing separately. You also don’t want both of you filing separately and each claiming your children as dependents. This is a sure way to get the IRS knocking on your door for an audit. Also, remember that joint returns have joint liability for any funny stuff.

Child Support and Alimony

If you’re paying child support, that is not tax deductible. If you’re paying alimony, however, that is deductible. If you are receiving alimony, then that is reportable income. Keep in mind that if you are paying interim support without a court order specifying that you pay alimony, then you can not report it as alimony. There are some other instances where alimony may not be deductible, so learn about the rules.

Need help with filing for a divorce? Contact us for legal help today!

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Family Law: Divorce isn't war. It's the beginnings of Peaceful Negotiations

Thursday, August 10, 2017

Have you ever felt like you were the only person in a conversation? The other person seems uninterested, detached, or distracted? Or maybe it just feels like they are listening only well enough to see where the breaks in conversation are going to open up, and they are just waiting for their turn to talk. Chances are if you are in the midst of a divorce right now, you might not have felt like your soon-to-be former spouse was ever listening. What makes you think they are going to listen now? Why should they? After all, you are at war.

Divorce isn't a war. The war was your marriage, and now you are beginning the process of peaceful negotiation. Now is the time you both can continue on with your lives and are able to follow your own paths, without getting in each other's way. When navigating the mediation table, you might feel like you are in a similar situation as you were during your marriage. A lot of people are talking, but nobody is listening. The problem is both of you want to be right. You know you are right!

Not listening might have played a part in the end of your marriage, but that doesn't mean it has to continue into your new found life. The best way to listen is to stop talking just to hear yourself. The first step in getting someone else to listen to you is to listen to them. Stop talking. Wait. If they are still talking, wait until they are done, re-engage in the discourse, or allow your attorney to intervene.

Are you seeking a resolution in your family law case? The definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. The worst thing is that it makes both of you crazy. Mediation just seems to be pouring gasoline on the nearly dead embers of a campfire. But this isn't a war. This is a chance for you both to start new patterns and your parting of ways can be civil and dignified. If you have children, it is the least you can do for them. If not, it is the very best you can do for each other.

Contact us if you want to have your voice heard in mediation. This process is a long and difficult one, but it shouldn't drive you crazy. Break those patterns and start somewhere new today!

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Can a Parent Have Joint Custody and Still Need to Pay Child Support?

Thursday, July 27, 2017

Many times parents will seek joint custody of a child not just because they want to spend time with them, but because they think that it means they won't need to pay child support. However, the unfortunate truth, if you are trying to avoid child support, is that the courts treat child support and custody as two different considerations, as they should since they are two very different concerns.

The truth is that you can have joint custody, but you can also end up paying child support as well. The amount of child support you pay is determined using the income shares models. This model takes the income of both parents then uses it to determine support obligation. The benefit to child support, if you have joint custody, is that you may end up paying less. Since the parents share custody, the amount of child support is often lower due to both parents sharing the burden of providing food, shelter, utilities, clothing, and other needs while living at both parent's houses for the determined amount of time.

However, child support is typically paid by the non-custody holding parent, so in joint custody who pays? Typically, if you have joint custody, the parent who has less custody will pay child support to the primary care taker. However, if one parent makes drastically more than the other, they also may end up paying some child support as well.

If you are getting a divorce and trying to get joint custody or determining child support, contact us today. The Law Offices of Elena Mebtahi are dedicated to getting you the best possible outcomes in all Family Law cases.

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Will Dating During a Divorce Affect My Case?

Thursday, July 20, 2017

Depending on the nature of a marriage, getting a divorce may seem like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders rather than something to be sad about. However, while you may be excited to get out there and mingle with other singles, by dating during a divorce you may risk reaping some negative consequences. Read More


What to Do When One Spouse Takes Advantage of Alimony

Thursday, July 13, 2017

When a relationship is dissolved, alimony is determined by a number of factors. The amount of alimony that one spouse has to pay to another can be determined by gross income such as wages, benefits, dividends from investments, and any similar sources of income that one party gathers through their various interests. In some cases, alimony is a permanent payment through various circumstances, but in most cases, alimony will be paid until the spouse receiving the payment can find gainful employment. Read More


Is a QDRO Necessary in a Divorce?

Thursday, July 06, 2017

When it comes to divorce, there are a lot of assets that need to be addressed and often split. However, we tend to focus on the immediate assets, like what is in our bank accounts. Yet, so much more important are the ones we won't need until much later in life - the retirement accounts. These can be tricky to split and even trickier to make sure that everyone can withdrawal their set amount when it is time. Read More


Father's Rights: What Do You Need To Know About Wage Garnishments?

Thursday, June 22, 2017

Did you know that your wages can be garnished if you do not make your child support payments? In some states, wage garnishment is automatic. Read More


Divorce And Summer Break: What Are Your Plans?

Thursday, June 08, 2017

Whether you have recently separated from your spouse or your divorce has been recently finalized, the separation or divorce will have a lasting impact on everyone's life for many years. One of the things that many people find difficult is co-parenting, especially during the different breaks in the year. Summer breaks can be difficult for many recently divorced couples because neither side is used to making schedules on when and where the children will be at all times. Read More



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